The Reset Button

Reflecting back, it’s hard not to be sentimental about some things that you had to throw away and give up on. There is so much effort spent creating something that turns out to be not what it needs to be. This could be anything from a work flow for a job, or cooking a meal, or even just the course of a day.  If you are no longer satisfied with how whatever it is has been going, the best thing to do is to throw it all away.  Many times we hold onto something because we feel that we have put too much work and energy into it to throw it away.  More often than not, this is an irrational thought that our inner voice uses to take the simplest route out.  Throwing things away and starting from scratch takes effort and sacrifice, and is so much harder than just being satisfied with whatever you already have.

The reset action is difficult and complex, as it is a realization that what you have is not what you want or need.  Not only are you throwing away the physical resources that you used to make whatever it is, but it appears that you are confirming that you have sacrificed the greatest commodity: time. Saying goodbye to something is often accompanied with a sadness and lamenting of all the memories you had with whatever it was.  Admitting failure makes that voice in your head perk up and say “I told you so”, which puts you down and can make you feel like you should be doing something else.  So, why would anyone want to feel this way?

Throwing away something you worked hard on can be liberating. It shows that you are not defined by the past and whatever it was that you had attempted earlier.  By admitting failure and believing that you can do better the next time promotes hope and optimism.  By shifting the lens of reflection from “I failed” to “I will do better”, we open ourselves up to possibilities and growth.  This is the true benefit of the reset button.  Long term thinkers can easily see that failure is a stepping stone to success.  So, take the lessons you learned from doing whatever it was, throw away whatever thing it was that you attempted, and get to creating again.  This is how we grow, not by being content with what we have, but by using the lessons we learned from the past and bringing them to the present to try and build a better future.

The reset button is not a new idea.  We fall asleep and wake up, our biology turns over at an incredible rate, and we are constantly rebuilding our identity with every decision we make.  So, the next time you feel like you failed, throw it away and hit the reset button to try again. 

Why am I moving, and why is it hard?

From June 8, 2018

My life has been in flux for the last year, I have chosen to get married, move across the country, and a by-product of this, I have had to start looking for a new job.  So, what is it like to uproot everything you’ve worked for over the last many years of your life and step into the unknown?  In short, it’s exciting and bittersweet.

 

People will move for a new job, a new school, or maybe to reunite with someone they love, but that's not us.  We have chosen to leave it all behind and move from Ottawa, Ontario to Vancouver, British Columbia in search of a better lifestyle.  We are looking to start our new life as a married couple out West and hope that our family and friends will follow our example to live life on their terms, and not to be tethered to anything.  I love Ottawa, and it will always have a place in my heart, but I just believe that it is important to keep moving, to try new things, and to continuously search for a better way of life.  The world is a small place, and it is getting smaller with technology, so why not try something new?  We are aiming for better temperatures, more outdoors inspiration, oceans, mountains, and a lifestyle that we want to model ours after. 

 

It’s exciting and hard to move, there are lots of pieces to coordinate, but the hardest part is leaving the relationships with friends and family.  I am hoping that with technology we will be able to keep the relationships we have, but it will take effort on both sides and time to get used to.  In the past my fiancee and I have both moved from our home city to the other’s, but we have always made an effort to drive back, invite people to our new digs, or just message friends to keep in touch.  Sometimes the effort is there, but sometimes it’s not, and that doesn’t mean that the relationship is lost.  Some people grow in their own way and that’s ok.  It is hard to stay relevant in someone’s life if you aren’t there in person, it’s just how we work as humans.  This is something we will have to come to terms with, as we say goodbye to our loved ones.  We are leaving in a good place, all of our family and friends are amazing, and everyone seems poised for their next chapters. We don’t see this as leaving our friends and family, we are going onto what comes next in our lives and hope that we can inspire a few people to do the same.  If we fade out of each other’s lives, then so be it, we wish everyone the best and will always love you in one way or another.

 

When it all boils down to it, the people you surround yourself are a reflection of you, and you are a reflection of them.  You will always have those relationships as a part of you wherever you go, and you will always be able to return to them if need be.  It is hard though, to say good bye, but we need to be able to jump in order to take big steps.  We are very excited for the move, but we already miss our loved ones, I just hope they all realize why we are doing this and come visit us on the journey. 

 

The truth behind tax returns

Homo economicus is a theory put forth by economists and philosophers that describes a being who is "cold and calculating, worries only about them self, and pursues whatever course brings them the greatest material advantage"­1.  In a perfect economic world, everyone would be a homo economicus and would make rational decisions that would result in optimal financial wealth.  Getting a tax return is not optimal.  A tax return is composed of funds that are returned, not given, by the government to the tax payer.

 

Take this example: imagine Jack Shephard makes $100,000 a year in British Columbia in 2018 and their salary has taxes deducted at source.  Estimating the combined marginal tax rates in BC, Jack can expect to pay 22.53% of his 2018 income in taxes, so they would have had $22,530 withheld at source by their employer.  In January of 2019, before the RRSP deadline, Jack decides to make a $20,000 RRSP contribution and claim the deduction on their 2018 taxes.  The RRSP contribution is pre-tax money, which means that Jack receives a deduction and their taxable income is reduced by the amount of the contribution.  After their contribution, Jack's income is now $80,000 and they now owe the government $15,798 for their 2018 taxes.  However, taxes have been withheld at source already, so the government has been “collecting” 22.53% of Jack’s income already and technically has the $25,530 in hand.  After Jack files their taxes, they get a cheque of $9,732 (the difference between taxes paid and taxes owed) and Jack is delighted... but should they be?

 

In this very simple situation, Jack has loaned the government the $9,732 throughout 2018 and had the loan "mature" in April 2019.  The $9,732 is money that Jack could have been using in 2018, either as an investment or for their own personal use.  Instead, the government has used Jack's money for whatever it needs it for in 2018 and not had to pay any interest to the lender, who in this case is Jack.  So what should Jack have done in this situation?  How can Jack behave more like a homo economicus and make a rational decision to find an optimal solution?  Had Jack known that they were going to make an RRSP contribution, then they could have filed a T1213 and had less tax withheld at source which would result in a $0 tax bill for 2018.  This method would have circumvented Jack giving an interest free loan to the government and they could have kept their money in hand throughout 2018.  Of course, Jack could take this a step further and have $0 taxes withheld and owe the full $15,798 in April.  Jack would then put their funds for the tax liability into a high interest savings account to receive some income before paying the liability in April.  This method comes with risk and the additional stress of a large bill, so it may not be in line with Jack’s goals, but everyone is different.

 

There are a variety of ways to lower taxable income and receive a tax return.  Jack could have some tax credits from moving expenses or could have made a sizable charitable contribution in 2018 to name a few.  All of these deductions and non-refundable tax credits could have been disclosed on the T1213 form and Jack could have avoided being used by the government as an interest free lender.  Of course, in the real world being a homo economicus is rare due to the irrational tendencies of people.  However, Jack and other Canadians like Jack can use sound financial planning and seek tax advice to optimize their wealth to help them reach their financial goals.  Speak to your financial advisor about how you can optimize your income and plan your finances to be optimal for your own personal goals.

 

  1. Zak, Paul J. (2010). Moral Markets: The Critical Role of Values in the Economy. Princeton University Press. p. 158

We're all human, and we all have biases

It is the responsibility of the wealth manager to inhibit the biases that clients may have in order to preserve wealth and make data driven decisions. Biases can distort how an investor sees reality and can lead to making poor decisions that can cause serious damage to wealth and detract from achieving long term goals. However, wealth managers are human as well and can also have biases of their own. It is important to understand what biases are, and acknowledge them in order to avoid making the wrong choice. When searching for a wealth manager, the investor should be cognisant of these biases and understand when they are present.

A bias can be described as a preference or an inclination (especially one that inhibits impartial judgement) or an unfair act or policy stemming from prejudice(1). It is a distorted way of processing information that can lead the investor, or wealth manager, to make a decision that is not necessarily correct based on the reality of the situation. Biases in the investment world are categorized into two major types: cognitive biases and emotional biases. Cognitive biases are similar to processing errors that are common to human thinking, whereas emotional biases are similar to an emotional response based on past experience. There are 14 major cognitive biases and 6 major behavioural biases that are common to investing.

Major Cognitive Biases

Overconfidence.

The overconfidence bias is the unwarranted confidence in one’s own decision making or intuitive reasoning that has very little basis. A common example would be someone who thinks that they know something that the market does not and tries to exploit it. There are billions of dollars spent on research in equity markets, so it is very improbable that the average investor can out predict the market.

Representativeness.

The representativeness bias is the practice of clumping in information with similar (but not necessarily the same) information from past experiences. This will have investors mentally classify an investment opportunity with something in the past that does not have the exact same characteristics. IPOs are a common example, where an investor saw a previous IPO have massive success, so they will be inclined to invest in other IPOs and expect similar results despite the company’s being fundamentally different.

Anchoring and Adjustment.

The anchoring and adjustment bias is present when an investor is given information initially, and then processes new information using the previous information. An example would be if one were shown a hotel room and a price, and then another hotel room and asked to guess the price. It has been shown that the initial hotel room’s price has a significant impact on the guess of the second hotel room compared to no “anchor” being present. This is similar in the investment world when an investor is determining the intrinsic value of an investment after being anchored by another figure.

Cognitive Dissonance.

The cognitive dissonance bias comes from a state of discomfort due to new information not coinciding with past information. In general investors do not like being wrong, so they will try their best to avoid new information that disagrees with their past decision making. The discomfort from being wrong will cause anxiety and negativity within the investor, who will then act in a way to avoid the sensation. A common example would be that of smoking, people smoke despite the overwhelming evidence against it, and justify it by claiming that the negative effects are unlikely to happen to them. This is very present in active investing, where despite the overwhelming evidence that active investing on average underperforms the benchmark(2) they continue to try to time the market and expect to outperform on a consistent basis.

Availability.

The availability bias is when investors make estimates based primarily on how familiar they are with the information present. People typically fall back on the most prevalent example to make a decision, opposed to evaluating all possible information. Investors typically have short term memory, and will think that the most easily recalled information is best. An investment example would be if someone were to make a decision to invest conservatively due to the media’s negative representation of capital markets, opposed to investing in accordance with their risk tolerance.

Self-Attribution.

The self-attribution bias (also known as the self-serving bias) comes from attributing success to personal action and failure to outside events. This is a common bias for investors as many wish to believe that they are successful and will inherently forget bad decisions and remember the good ones. This is especially prevalent in active investing as many investors will attribute good decisions to “intuition” or a “hunch” opposed to pure luck.

Illusion of Control.

The illusion of control bias is self-explanatory, where investors believe that they have control of events that are outside of their realm of influence. This is commonly exhibited as superstition, like when a gambler blows on dice or throws them harder hoping for a higher result. The overestimation of personal influence can lead to frustration or unfounded positive reinforcement for investors who will assign blame to themselves when their actions had no effect on the situation.

Conservatism bias.

The conservatism bias comes from people avoiding information that contradicts their beliefs. This is responsible for the ignorance of new information and investors refusing to change their investment strategy despite evidence against their previous investment strategy. The under-reaction of investors to new information can be quite dangerous as investors could stick to a failing investment strategy despite early warning signs against it.

Ambiguity Aversion.

The ambiguity aversion bias comes from investors avoiding decisions or risk when the probability is unknown. A common example would be if someone were to bet on a ball being red or blue when pulled from a container. They would prefer to bet if the number of balls of each colour were known to be 50/50, opposed to if the distribution of balls were unknown. Investors will typically invest in an arena that they know, opposed to taking a chance and investing in a new area where the outcomes are not known. Older investors are typically known to exhibit this type of bias.

Mental Accounting

The mental accounting bias describes people’s tendency to categorize and evaluate economic outcomes by grouping assets into non-fungible (non-interchangeable) mental accounts(3). A common example of this is when a person receives a tax refund. The refund typically comes from too much tax being withheld from pay, so it has always been the person’s funds from the beginning. However, people will be more likely to spend their tax refund more recklessly opposed to if they had those funds saved up from before. Investors also exhibit mental accounting with “core and explore” strategies, where they hold a “safe” portfolio and invest speculatively with another portion opposed to investing in a unified investment strategy.

Confirmation.

The confirmation bias is a selective memory fault where investors will emphasize information that confirms their beliefs and degrade information that opposes them. This will cause investors to strengthen incorrect strategies while ignoring new information to the contrary, and over time have a significantly incorrect view on their situation. A common example is when a person believes a certain type of car is driven by bad drivers. They will always remark when they see a driver in that car do something wrong, whereas they will not remark when another type of car does something similar. This can be particularly dangerous long term as over time it can cause for a major distortion of the view of markets and wealth strategies.

Hindsight.

The hindsight bias is when an investor or person feels that an outcome could have been predicted, even though it was impossible. There are many factors that lead to events such as price increase for a security, and the repetition of similar events will not necessarily lead to similar results. This will lead to frustrations as investors will feel that missed successes could have been predicted and will make investors prone to making a decision based on a similar series of events in the future. This can be quite dangerous as it is easy to forget that past performance is not indicative of future results.

Recency.

The recency bias is when an investor focuses on short term data opposed to taking into consideration the longer term data. Investors are particularly vulnerable to this bias as many will only consider short term (<1 year) attributes when considering an investment, when a much longer time horizon should be used. An example would be a sharply increasing stock is seen as a good investment, when in fact it could be a cyclical stock and a downturn could be imminent as the stock is already fully valued.

Framing.

The framing bias is the tendency to see particular situations differently, depending upon the surrounding circumstances. An everyday example is when a person goes to the grocery store and sees deals like “2 for $5” and, even though the price is $2.50 each, people will tend to buy 2 at a time. This bias is used in media and sales in the investment world in order to play on the emotional response of investors. The framing of a statement should have no bearing on the underlying data of making a decision, so it should not affect investment decisions, but it does.

Emotional Biases

Endowment.

The endowment bias shows that an investor places more value upon investments that they own, opposed to investments that they do not. This can lead to investors holding onto investments unnecessarily despite a more favourable alternative being available.

Self-Control.

The self-control bias is actually the typical behaviour of an investor willing to spend recklessly at the cost to be paid later. The disregard for future consequences can cause people to be impulsive and act on something in something immediate without carefully considering the data available. Many investors realise the lack of self-control and will opt for funds to be withheld from them to avoid future confrontation with making bad decisions.

Optimism.

The optimism bias is the natural tendency to think of one’s self as being better than others based on very little data. A prevalent example is active investing, which by nature implies that the active investor believes that they are smarter than the market and can outperform their peers. However, the entire active market is buying and selling with each other, and they all can’t be right, so it cannot always be true.

Loss Aversion.

The loss aversion bias means that people generally feel a stronger impulse to avoid losses than to acquire gains(4). The motivation to avoid a loss is roughly twice as powerful as the motivation to obtain a gain of equal magnitude. An example would be if someone were offered a coin flip (50/50 chance) where they could win $100 or lose $75, they will most likely not participate. This impact can lead to unnecessarily conservative investment strategies when more risk should be taken.

Regret aversion.

The regret aversion bias is when a person avoids making a decision due to the fear that, in hindsight, whatever they decide on will result in a bad decision. The regret-averse investor will focus on the regret felt from the worst possible situation after a decision and base their action on that. This will lead to an overweighting on the probability of a negative outcome and lead to an inappropriately conservative strategy.

Status Quo.

The status quo bias occurs when an investor is faced with a significant amount of options, they will typically choose to remain the same. In investing, this can lead to unnecessary emotional attachments to securities and lead to the tendency for in investor to hold onto a failing investment opposed to exploring the options.

Becoming familiar with these biases and acknowledging them can help the investor avoid possible mistakes when selecting an investment or wealth manager. Once a bias has been identified, the investor can step back and process the information again in order to make a more data driven, responsible choice to make wealth management decisions that coincide with their long term goals.

1 The American Heritage Dictionary of the English Language, Fifth Edition. Copyright 2015 by Houghton Mifflin Harcourt Publishing Company.

2 S&P Indices Versus Active Scorecard.

3Thaler, R. H. “Towards a positive theory of consumer choice.” Journal of Economic Behaviour and Organization, 1, 1980, 39-60.

4Kahneman and Tversky, “Prospect theory: An analysis of decision under risk”. Econometrica, 47, 1979, 263-291.

Canadian Securities Institute, “What Are Investment Biases”. Advanced Investment Strategies, 92-97, 2016

Welcome

Welcome to my career blog, where you can find content about how I ended up as a professional and my journey of growth and learning.  Here I will let you know all of things that I wish someone told me when I was starting out. Read through my stories, advice, or anything else I find that relates to me as a professional and hopefully these posts will help you wherever you are in your own professional development.  

1 hour dates ftw

Recently I have had a hard time finding time to go out on dates with my wife.  We are currently in the process of moving our belongings from Ottawa to Vancouver, winding down from the wedding earlier this month, and trying to keep our day to day life on track.  Now our free time is spent going over moving logistics, putting old wedding stuff away, preparing for work, cleaning and organizing the apartment, which leaves very little time for us to take for ourselves.  Out of necessity comes innovation, and we have started to organize our dates into condensed time slots, about an hour or two tops to have fun and unwind. 

We have lived in downtown Ottawa for 3 years, and it is constantly evolving and changing.  Before, we were set into our routines, and only frequented a few places that we knew, but now our routines have been shaken up.  This has forced us from our usual spots and challenged us to explore our familiar neighbourhood to find untraveled spots that we have always wanted to check out.   Being in an urban centre is very beneficial for short term commutes due to the density of businesses and experiences.  Many of these places go unseen as we are creatures of habit and generally aim to go to places that we know, which leaves the vast majority of what’s out there unexplored. 

Now that we are limited in resources, namely time, it forced us to explore the nooks and crannies of the neighbourhood close by.  The ironic thing is that by now being limited in time, we finally found the time to try the places we always passed and wanted to try.  One hour is enough time for a small commute, a sit down and conversation, then a commute back.  I imagine that this is the case for many other couples, as familiarity is comfort, but being forced from your comfort zone is a good way to explore. 

So what do we do with an hour, here are a few dates that we’ve done as well as a few we plan on doing:

1)    Bike to a local art house café and try a coffee and check out the art.

2)    Bike to a new restaurant you’ve never been to for a quick bite to eat.

3)    Walk down a few streets less travelled and check out the gardens.

4)    Bike down a new bike path in a direction we don’t go down.

5)    Download a geo caching app and go hunting.

6)    An hour long walk to the Ottawa river.

7)    Go find a few local community gardens and get ideas.

8)    Make a small scavenger hunt for things you would find in local front yards.

9)    Go to the local dog park and check out the pups.

10) Follow a local Instagram and find some spots from their posts.

 

The one-hour timeslot is the same as most tv episodes, so this is a healthy alternative that helps you feel closer to your surroundings.  This new challenge and adventure has given us a fun way of doing things together without compromising our day to day grind. 

Weight loss

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Over the last 8 months, I have lost 20 pounds and am managing to keep it off.  This is the second time I’ve gone through such a transformation, and this time around I am starting to learn some tricks that have helped.  Losing weight is a very hard experience, as it takes time, discipline, hard work, and patience.  The obvious rewards for losing weight are superficial, but the latent effects have a ripple effect throughout your entire life. 

The first time I lost weight seriously was in 2016, when I started going to the gym as a lent challenge to myself.  The number one thing that will help you lose weight, is just being active.  I always think of it as an engine, when the engine is roaring, then it doesn’t matter what you’re feeding it.  By making some subtle changes in my life, I was able to slowly turn that engine from idle, to roaring.  I would take the stairs instead of the elevator, standing at my desk, walking or biking instead of driving, running every chance I got, and lifting weights on a regular basis.  I would aim to go to the gym every day, and if I couldn’t make it, I was sure that I got by 10,000 steps in that day.  This kept me active, so the next step was just finding out what to feed myself.  After researching the various fad diets, the one with the most evidence was a protein rich diet.  By monitoring my diet, increasing by day to day activity, and drinking more water, I was able to melt away about 20 over 6 months. 

I am not sure when it happened, but at some point I stopped going to the gym, and started to have more patio beers.  This lead to the slow, lethargic creep back to my old weight.  The weight that I was unhappy with and that prompted the change in the first place.  It is a disarming feeling having your body pack on pounds when you don’t want to.  I was complacent, and complacency stopped me from going to the gym.  I was happy with where I was at, and didn’t feel like I needed to get any better, which meant that I was getting worse.    Over the next 6 months, I slowly gained back what I had worked so hard to lose.  I wasn’t in a bad place, I was enjoying life, working on my career, hanging out with loved ones, but I was just letting myself go.

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Fast forward to October 2017, my girlfriend and I decided to go to a new gym and start a new routine.  I was able to use what I had learned from the last experience and set a new set of goals to hit.  My regiment is always to start with cardio for the first few weeks, and start to form the habit of going to the gym and increase the heart muscle.  The habit is the most important step, so just going to the gym for a run was a win, a very painful win.  I also started to take the stairs to my office every morning, which was 8 stories, just enough to get a light sweat on and start my metabolism every morning.  I went back to eating a protein rich diet, and avoiding sugars in food and drink, which meant minimal beer.  After a month of cardio, I started lifting weights and found a training schedule that pushed me each day in a different muscle group.  Weighing myself every morning gave me the little reward each morning of watching my weight go down by fractions of a pound, but over the long run they added up.  Pound by pound my weight would go down, my desire to go to the gym would go up, and my energy would increase.

Weight loss and the weight loss journey have become something of a passion for me, as it has changed me.  Your confidence in your body goes way up, the compliments are validating as your hard work manifests itself in your body.  You carry yourself better, and you can speak your mind more clearly as you feel confidence throughout your life.  Everyone has their own inhibitions about their body, so everyone wants to change something about them.  By learning how to lose weight, and improve yourself, you now have the power over yourself to change for the better, and it feels great. 

10 things I wish I knew when I was looking for a career

1)    Employers won’t hire you based on what you know, they will hire you based on how you approach situations where you don’t know.

-     Employers will use experience as a building block for who they believe you can be, so don’t be nervous about not knowing something.  You won’t be the perfect employee on your first day, but be sure that you have a game plan and resources to tackle problems that you encounter.  Navigating tough situations and learning quickly will show everyone that you are the best person to handle whatever challenge may come.

 

2)    Personality is important, so don’t try to be anyone you aren’t or else the fit won’t be right.

-     You will be spending the majority of your waking time with your coworkers, so they want to know who you really are.  It’s important to just be yourself from the first interview, that way you will be comfortable and your potential employer will get a gauge on what things would be like with you in the office.  Too often people overemphasize the little things and get tense, just be your best professional self and show off your personality.

 

3)    Be sure to interview your interviewer, it shows confidence and ability to think critically, this will be your career after all.

-     Don’t be afraid to ask questions, a few good questions will go a long way for a few reasons.  Asking your employer about culture, stress levels, work load, responsibilities etc. show that you are thinking about what life will really be like in the office.  Be sure to find out as much information about the workplace as possible, it will lead to less conflicts later on.  Asking questions can also lead to better conversations and can help show your potential employer what’s important to you.

 

4)    Don’t compromise ethics for a paycheck.

-     Your ethics are who you are, and all conflicts come from differences in ethics between employer and employees.  It is important to find a job that fits who you are and what’s important to you, that way you can love what you do and be passionate about your work.  If you do what you love, then you’ll never “work” a day in your life.

 

5)    Don’t be afraid of a small salary if you have the potential for growth.

-     Not many people will get their ideal salary as soon as they start, be sure to put the job ahead of the pay check.  If there is a job that really is a great fit, money shouldn’t be the deciding factor.  There is always room to grow, and growth potential should be a huge part of your career choice.  Find your ideal job fit, prove to your employer what you are worth, and the salary will follow.  If someone offers you a seat on the rocket ship, you take it.

 

6)    A career is only part of who you are, don’t be afraid to take on additional commitments if they are important to you.

-     Obviously your career will be a huge part of your life, but it doesn’t have to be all encompassing.  Often finding something on the side that you are passionate about can actually boost your standing within the company, as it shows that you are well rounded and have lots to offer outside of work.  Commit yourself to your job, but don’t stop there, volunteer in the community, take on a side hustle if your work allows it, diversify your time and find other ways to make yourself useful.  You will find that doing more will improve your network, which can ultimately help your career in the long run.

 

7)    Find out about your future colleagues, and try to build relationships with them as soon as possible.

-     When you start out, you are just a resume and a name, try your best to get to know the people in the office and make an effort to get to know them.  This will ultimately make you memorable and help get some people pulling for you.  Once you start your job you will also be more comfortable asking for help, which you will do a lot of.  Not to mention that one of the most important things for job security is being liked, you want to have friends on your side in the office. 

 

8)    Ask about employee turnover, often this is a good barometer for the culture of the office and what it will be like to work there.

-     High employee turnover often means that there is conflict between employees and senior staff.  You want to avoid a toxic workplace and when there is a revolving door, it often can signal that others don’t want to work there, and they might be onto something.  Try to find a place where talented people stick, it will mean that the employer cares about wellness and wants to create an atmosphere where talent is happy and properly compensated.

 

9)    Don’t limit yourself to big companies in your search, often start ups or boutique style companies can be great for growth.

-     While it is attractive to be able to say that you work for a recognizable brand name, it can be equally as fulfilling to work for a small company in its initial stages of development.  Working for small to medium sized companies also comes with the potential for “getting in on the ground floor”.  You can experience whole new set of challenges that is often rewarded in the long run as long as you are hard working and committed.

 

10) Work hard and good things will happen.

-     You won’t always be the best at what you do right off the bat, but by working hard and being passionate, you will find yourself in good situations more often than not.  There isn’t always an immediate reward for your hard work, and often you won’t see the benefit for years to come.  By continuing to show that you can tackle challenges, work hard, and being committed, you will show those around you that you are a force for the company.  Keep it up, and good things will come your way.

Don't forget to smile

Life is more than just a job and a paycheck.  I am also a baseball player, music enthusiast, and human underneath it all.  Here I want to publish content about what makes me happy, how I learn to deal with stress, and most of all, how I have fun.  These posts will chronicle the fun things in my life and hopefully give you some ideas of how to enjoy yours.

Monsters under your bed.

The last few years have taught me many things, and despite no defining benchmarks like degrees, new relationships, new jobs, etc. there has been a clear and obvious change in my lifestyle.  

Objects used to stick to me like parasites, and I couldn't remove anything without feeling some kind of emotional pain. I would justify keeping the clutter with the same cliché excuses: "it reminds me of...", "I might need that some day..", or "what if I have to [do something I never do] and need that [useless thing]?..".  This lead to clutter everywhere. Old t-shirts would hibernate under my bed, trinkets used once in some obscure setting would stick around forever and my life would look (and feel) like a teenagers messy room.  

I'm not sure why it happened, but one day I faced my fears and started to purge... it felt good. At first I thought I was losing an old friend when I threw out a t-shirt from University. However, the more I did it, the more I could see how irrational my excuses were. I found that I could still remember the memory, I never ended up needing the thing again, and l could still function totally fine. The insurmountable pain of throwing things away retreated to become like the sting of ripping off a bandaid, and it got less and less painful the more I did it. In fact, it eventually turned into pleasure and later a passion. The space created by throwing things away opened up capacity both mentally and physically. I now pride myself of a more streamline and efficient lifestyle.

Now, my life is better, cleaner and crisper without clutter hindering the evolution process. It's obvious that living with less is more.